sometimes...

...people say they mean well, but do not act well...

sometimes...

...people say they want to help, but only make things more complicated...

sometimes...

...people say you are important, but worry only about how something will impact them...

and this is part of the reason i am slowly going completely insane (read: just part... not completely)...

things should be done unconditionally, or not at all... you can tell by a tone what lies truly beneath... and if what lies beneath is trying to control things or make oneself feel better... well, then maybe one should not bother...

i know, i'm a damn ungrateful person... i'm sorry...